Describe your situation
Give a quick sentence (or two). The more specific you are, the more “that’s literally me” the suggestion feels. Everything runs in your browser.
Stuck overthinking? This fun tool turns your situation + vibe into one bold move you can try — plus a 0–100 Boldness Score you can screenshot and share. It’s not therapy, finance advice, or destiny… it’s a playful “pick one brave action” generator made for momentum.
Give a quick sentence (or two). The more specific you are, the more “that’s literally me” the suggestion feels. Everything runs in your browser.
This tool is designed around a simple idea: momentum beats perfection. When you’re stuck, the brain secretly wants certainty. But certainty usually requires action to create. So the calculator does three things: (1) it picks a relevant category, (2) it measures how bold you want to be today, and (3) it turns that into one action you can actually do inside your chosen timeframe.
Important: the suggestion is meant to be actionable and specific, not “be confident.” You can always edit it to fit your life. If the tool gives you a bold move that feels unsafe or unethical, skip it — the point is momentum, not chaos.
The Boldness Score is a weighted mix of your settings, with a small “novelty” variation based on your text so the results don’t feel identical for everyone. It is not scientific — it’s a structured way to map “how brave do I want to be?” into a consistent number.
Each category has a baseline because “bold” looks different in different arenas. For example, bold in career often means asking, bold in love often means clarifying, and bold in habits often means committing.
Your selected boldness level adds up to 30 points. Soft bold adds fewer points; unhinged brave adds more.
Shorter timeframes increase urgency (more points). Low energy reduces complexity (slightly fewer points). Public moves add points because social exposure is a form of boldness.
We hash your situation text and add a small -10 to +10 variation. This keeps results from feeling copy-paste.
Final score is clamped to 0–100. The meter then visually fills to match your score.
Example 1: Career (medium bold, 7 days, private)
Situation: “I want a better job but I keep hesitating to apply.”
Output: A bold move like “Send one cold email to a hiring manager with a 3-line pitch,” plus a tiny starter step
like “write the subject line and save draft,” and a backup move like “apply to one role with a saved resume.”
Example 2: Love (bold, today, semi-public)
Situation: “We’ve been talking for weeks and I’m confused.”
Output: “Ask one clarity question in a calm message,” with a starter step (write it in Notes first) and a backup
(ask for a quick call instead).
Example 3: Habits (soft bold, 30 days, private)
Situation: “I keep doomscrolling at night.”
Output: “Set a 10pm phone parking spot + 7-day streak bet,” starter step (move charger), backup (use grayscale).
Notice the pattern: a bold move is usually a clear ask, a visible commitment, or a social exposure moment — but it’s still something you can do without rewriting your life.
The number is a quick “intensity meter.” It doesn’t measure your worth — it measures how much exposure, commitment, or discomfort is baked into the move the tool is recommending. Use it like a thermostat: if the room is too hot, turn it down (lower boldness or choose Private). If it’s too cold, turn it up (shorter timeframe, more public, higher boldness).
If you consistently get high scores and never act, that’s not a failure — it’s a signal that your “boldness” setting is ahead of your nervous system. Use the backup move, or drop to Soft bold for a week. The goal is movement you can repeat.
A bold move often fails because you don’t know what to say. Here are quick scripts that match the calculator’s style — direct, kind, and specific. Customize the blanks.
If you’re unsure, keep the move small and safe: draft first, send later. Boldness is a dial — you control it.
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